Thursday, June 20, 2013

Boys Behaving Badly (and some comments by Gus Gould) - By Mary


It seems that the big issue in NRL this week is how to deal with some of our 'boys behaving badly'.

Gus Gould has weighed into the debate this morning, suggesting that it is time that players were deregistered when sacked for bad behaviour from their clubs.

Gould uses one of the arguments I used in my earlier blog 'The Blake Ferguson Saga' being that our current system almost discourages clubs for taking a strong stance in regard to player misbehaviour. Canberra have been the Club that over time have suffered the most. Following their working with and support of players like Todd Carney and Josh Dugan, both extremely talented players, there came a point where the Club had had enough and took strong action, sacking both these players. Unfortunately for the Raiders, both these players were signed by other Clubs quite quickly. Those Clubs essentially benefited from the strong stance that the Raiders took in regard to player behaviour. This disadvantage discourages Clubs from taking a strong stance in the future.

I agree that in light of recent incidents, the Clubs do need to take a stronger stance when it comes to player behaviour. However, the Clubs need to work together and have a consistent approach. They need to support each other and make a stand and say 'we do not tolerate this type of behaviour' and stand behind Clubs who decide to deregister players.

There are many issues to wade through however. Firstly, what sort of a misdemeanour is worthy of deregistering a player? We have had a range of incidents this week including an alleged indecent assault, property damage and Mal Meninga being asked to exit a bar. I would argue that these incidents certainly range in seriousness, but Mal Meninga's response to the media beat up surrounding his circumstances was interesting.

Most of these incidents involve alcohol.

All of these incidents involve people in our game who are seen as role models and as representatives of our game. No matter how minor the incident, Meninga's response suggests that he doesn't recognise the importance of his behaviour and the role he plays as a mentor to players. By trying to excuse his incident we get into a very complicated cycle about what sort of behaviour we are comfortable with being linked to the people involved in our game.

Another suggestion that has been put forward this week is to have 'minders' who go out with the players and help them to stay out of trouble. This option is one I find silly and once again passing the buck. It then becomes someone else's responsibility to ensure that the players misbehave, giving players a convenient scapegoat when they are caught up behaving badly.

Our players should not need to have a minder to tell them that no means no from a female. Our players should not need to have a minder to tell them that they should not throw a street sign through a car window. Our players also should not feel the need to have minders accompany them on their nights out.

Some of our players need a shift in attitude - they are professional sportsman who are paid a significant amount of money to keep their bodies in peak, physical condition. They need to start behaving this way.

I think I've blogged this issue to death - I'm looking forward to some tremendous football over the weekend. It will hopefully give me something else to talk about next week.

Love,

@LadiesWhoLeague

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